“And
I fear that my place gets taken by some other one, very lucky and not too shy,
who flirts with your eyes while I’m the one who’s crazy about them.”
― Nizar Qabbani
― Nizar Qabbani
Rose and
John
Narrator:
Characters in this segment are Rose and John.
(Rose
and John visits John's closest friend, Frank. They eat lunch together).
Frank: John has never been himself since he
he met you Rose. I'll tell you that John is madly in love with you.
Rose: (smiles and blushes) Thank you Frank.
Frank: Yes Rose. You made the fall of a
strong man. I remember when Joh was still trying to win your heart. He would
come home crying and I'd stand and wonder if I was seeing the real John. (He
laughed mockingly).
John: (frowns) That's enough Frank. You
don't have to beat about the bush. The fact remains that Rose is my woman and I
love her so much.
Rose: (Whispered silently) I love you too
John.
The Signs of Infatuation
Continued
SIGN 11 You Are Creating A Ton Of Drama In Your
Relationship
If your
relationships feels dramatic instead of loving, then you are probably
projecting a lot of intense feelings towards your partner and your
relationship, or holding a lot of high expectations over their head or yours.
That’s a sign of infatuation not love.
Drama
happens when there is a lack of love in the relationship. Love is tender and
sweet, not dramatic. You don’t blow up at someone you love and make them feel
horrible about themselves. You don’t treat someone you love poorly because you
feel they’ve hurt you. You don’t talk about someone you love behind their back
negatively and then treat them amazingly in person. But, if you are infatuated,
and have a ton of intense (and insecure) feelings towards them, then drama is sure
to be present in your relationship.
SIGN
12 You’ve
Lost Interest Suddenly
If you’ve
lost interest after feeling a bunch of passionate feelings for someone, it can
be hard to figure out what is going on. But, there’s a really simple
explanation. The infatuation you felt for them is gone and has been replaced by
a loss of interest. Remember, infatuation is a powerful feeling that is
short-lived, whereas love is a deep connection that stands the test of time. If
you don’t feel that connection anymore, then you were not in love and you have
also fallen out of infatuation.
SIGN
13 You Feel
Tired All The Time
Being
infatuated with someone is draining! You are constantly worried about what they
think. You are obsessed over what they are doing and whether or not they are as
obsessed as you are. You think about them, dream about them, worry about them,
cry over them, and stress out when you think things are not going well.
Love
doesn’t drain your energy like that. It actually gives you energy. That’s
because you are in a higher energy state, where love, gratitude, and joy are,
and they are not draining to your energy, they make you feel great. Negative
states, such as jealousy, worry, or fear, take a lot of energy to manifest and
go through, and that’s why they drain you.
SIGN
14 You Feel Disconnected And Alone
Infatuation
is about wanting to be connected to someone. But, when tough times come up, you
quickly become aware of how disconnected you really are from them, and you
crave their attention or concern.
When you
are in love, they are there for you. You have a connection. You are a team. You
work through issues, both in your relationships and in your individual lives,
together. You never feel alone because you know the person who loves you will
always be there for you.
We've come to the end of Signs of
Infatuation Series. I'm sure y'all know the difference between love and
infatuation. You'll see that what most of us perceive as love is actually not
what it seems to be. I hope you gained one or two from the lovely series.
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